Actually I Having trouble introducing Myself .. but i'll try my best for it. Firstly, my name is Raffi Ruslan, 21 years old. I live with my auntie at Beaufort , Sabah since my parents and siblings move to other state , Johor. I'm the last child in my siblings and the cutest one.. Sorry Im bluffing here..( put my hand on my mouth ) .
I'm not attractive person who can easily get attention by other people .. I've try my best to get little attention of people around me.. but it's not quiet enough to make them shake their head or blink their eye to look into me.. after try harder ( not actually ) i'm getting bored to try it anymore.. .
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stop about this poor story...
now, I wanna share my little knowledge about "How should we do to introduce ourself ".. I think I'm getting brave to talk about it.. before this I had read some article from Magazine about the way we start our conversations, I think it's quiet good to help me apply it in our daily life.
Firstly, Look people straight in the eyes , eye contact is important because it shows that you care and also shows self confidence.. don't shy to look other eyes because it can attract other people to more focus to you.
second, always Smile where it is important to keep a nice, bright smile and fresh breath too( make sure you use Colgate to make it fresh ) ^_^.. Your smile is your icebreaker, it draws people to you because you will look like a happy, stable person.
Third, Handshake demonstrates your self more confidence, but make sure you don't break the other person's arm or hand just try squeezing slightly with our fingers and not our thumb. Just a squeeze and control hand shake, you will definitely gain your confidence.
Fourth, Say our name and immediately ask for theirs - then repeat their name while saying - "it's a pleasure to meet you John" or "nice to meet you Jane" - repeating the person's name will help you remember their name and again, will also show you care. Have a Great Conversation.Make sure you introduce with both first and last names.
Fifth, Giving a Nickname is absolutely ok, but never appropriate to say your name is your nickname. It is an awkward joke if you consider it a joke. Always give notice it's a nickname, for example : "My name's Zul, but they call me 'The Karups'.
after that, You may tell a little bit of our background in order to start our conversation.
I think that all i wanna share with you all today.. hope we be able to apply it in our start conversation..
see you later..
By : Duke
